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  • 11Jan

    Lucifer Effect

    久闻津巴多博士的“斯坦福监狱实验”,但一直没有详细看这本书。直到梁文道在《开卷八分钟》中正式介绍了一下,才起了认真读的愿望。

    这个实验发生在上世纪70年代,一群身体健康的大学生通过申请,走入了“斯坦福监狱”,他们被随机分成两组,“狱卒”和“囚犯”。仅仅几天后,这些大学生变发生了惊人的变化,“狱卒”们学会了惩罚“囚犯”,各种手段,可以说无所不用其极;“囚犯”们有的反抗,有的顺从,有的沉默。。。实验并没有按计划完成,津巴多博士女友的到来中止了这项实验,在她的提醒下,津巴多博士才从“典狱长”的身份中跳出来,正视已然变味的实验。

    不到一周的时间,这个实验便让9名身心健康、遵纪守法、毫无前科,具有大学文化知识的年轻人,变成了冷酷无情的看守。到底是为什么呢?津巴多的实验结论是:个人的性情并不像我们想像得那般重要,善恶之间并非不可逾越,环境的压力会让好人干出可怕的事情。

    虽然有些难以置信,还是不得不接受这样的结论。我们不也经常说“屁股决定脑袋”么?身处的环境和位置,决定了人的思维方式和行为,很多时候,所谓“个人”的存在是微乎其微,可以忽略不计的,情境的力量比我们想象的要大得多。这也是我不喜欢脸谱化日本军人的影视作品的原因,似乎日本人就是那样暴虐无人性;但其实身处那样的环境中,我们自己会有何种作为,都是很难估量的。

    这么一讲,孟子的“居移气,养移体,大哉居乎”和吴思的“良民淘汰定律”都变得理所当然,人果然是趋利避害的动物,不要太高估自己的道德约束力。相比X党的“道德楷模”,我认为好的好的制度设计更加重要,让人处在有监督的环境中,不能作恶,而不是“不愿作恶”。

    当然,人还是有自主意识的,并不完全是情境的产物,按照津巴多博士的“十步法”,或许能多多少少抵制下情境对于我们的作用。具体如下:

    1. I made a mistake: Encourage admission of our mistakes, first to ourselves, then to others. Doing so openly reduces the need to justify or rationalize our mistakes and thereby to continue to give support to bad or immoral influence.

    2. I am mindful: We must transform our usual state of mindless inattention into mindfulness, especially in new situations. Ask for evidence to support assertion; demand that ideologies be sufficiently elaborated to allow you to separate rhetoric from substance. Try to determine whether the recommended means ever justify potentially harmful ends. Reject simple solutions as quick fixed for complex personal or social problems. Support critical thinking from the earliest times in children’s lives, alerting them to the deceptive TV ads, biased claims, and distorted perspectives being presented to them.

    3. I am responsible: Taking responsibility for one’s decisions. We become more resistant to undesirable social influence by always maintaining a sense of personal responsibility and by being willing to be held accountable for our actions. Obedience to authority is less blind t the extent that we are aware that diffusion or responsibility merely disguises our individual complicity in the conduct of questionable actions.

    4. I will assert my unique identity: Do not allow others to deindividuate you, to put you into a category, a box, a slot, to turn you into an object. Make eye contact. Anonymity and secrecy conceal wrongdoing and undermine the human connection. They can become the breeding grounds that generate dehumanization that provides the killing ground for bullies, rapists, torturers, terrorists, and tyrants. Never allow or practice negative stereotyping; words, labels, and jokes can be destructive, if they mock others.

    5. I respect just authority but rebel against unjust authority: Work to distinguish between those in authority who, because of their expertise, wisdom, seniority, or special status, deserve respect, and the unjust authority figures who demand our obedience without having any substance. Doing so will reduce our mindless obedience t self-proclaimed authorities whose priorities are not in our best interests.

    6. I want group acceptance, but value my independence: The power of that desire for acceptance will make some people do almost anything to be accepted and go to even further extremes to avoid refection by the Group. There are times when conformity to a group norm is counterproductive to the social good. It is imperative to determine when to follow the norm and when to reject it.

    7. I will be more frame-vigilant: Who makes the frame becomes the artist, or the econ artist. The way issues are framed is often more influential than the persuasive arguments within their boundaries. Moreover, effective frames can seem not to be frames at all, just sound bites, visual images, slogans, and logos.  They influence us without being conscious of them, and they shape our orientation toward the ideas or issues they promote. It is crucial to be aware of power and to be vigilant in order to offset its insidious influence on our emotions, thoughts and votes.

    8. I will balance my time perspective: We can be led to do things that are not what we believe in when we allow ourselves to become trapped in an expanded present moment. Situational power is weakened when past and future combine to contain the excesses of the present.

    9. I will not sacrifice personal or civic freedoms for the illusion of security: The need for security is a powerful determinant of human behavior. We can be manipulated into engaging in actions that are alien to us when faced with alleged threats to our security or the promise of security from danger. Never sacrifice basic personal freedoms for the promise of security because that sacrifices are real and immediate and the security is a distant illusion. Such as when a leader promises personal safety and notional security at the cost of a collective sacrifice of suspending laws, privacy, and freedoms.

    10. I can oppose unjust systems: Individuals falter in the face of the intensity of the systems we have described: the military and prison systems as well as those of gangs, cults, fraternities, corporations, and even dysfunctional families. But individual resistance in concert with that of others of the same mind and resolve can combine to make a difference. Resistance may involve physically removing one’s self from a total situation in which all information, rewards, and punishments are controlled. It may involve challenging the groupthink mentality and being able to document all allegations of wrongdoing. Systems have enormous power to resist change and withstand even righteous assault.

     

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  • 05Jan

    从百度百科上查到的,这句话出自《春秋左传·桓公十年》,原文如下:

    初,虞叔有玉,虞公求旃。弗献。既而悔之,曰:‘周谚有之:“匹夫无罪,怀璧其罪。”吾焉用此,其以贾害也?’乃献之。又求其宝剑。叔曰:‘是无厌也。无厌,将及我。’遂伐虞公。故虞公出奔共池。”

    其义大概是贪图财宝通常会招来祸患。在我看来,并不仅仅是贪图财宝,拥有财宝也会招来祸患,尤其是继承来的财宝。人的能力与其手中掌握的资源要相匹配,在能力未达到之前,不要奢望自己掌控不了的东西,那只会给自己招来祸害。

    那些含着金钥匙出生的人,其实并不是幸运;他们的资源很多,但为了能够真正“掌控”这些资源,要付出更多的努力。而那些被父母呵护下长大的奶娃娃们,富二代或者官二代们,一旦离开庇护,手中的资源就会引起很多人的觊觎,如果他们没有能力去守护,结局通常是很悲哀的。

    和空姐讨论这个问题,她说是的,就是这样,资源是有限的,想要得到资源,就要去!抢到之后,还要有能力去守护;等着天上掉馅饼,可能吧,没能力守护,最终还是被别人抢走…突然想起来了前一阵子看的《三体》,在那个有三个太阳的星球,他们虽然科技高度发达,却不能预测太阳的运行,没有好的生存环境,偶然之中,他们发现了地球,于是一场星际大战一触即发。地球人看起来很无辜,有点“躺着也中枪”的意思,怎么突然就来了一场星际战争呢?但事实就是这样残酷,想象一个奶娃娃,在一群快饿死的大人面前,拿着硕大的面包吧嗒嘴,能不抢么?

    当然,《三体》只是科幻;现实中,道德会约束人不能按照自己的意愿去做事。可是,大家都讲道德的话,要警察、法律干嘛?几年前,我还认为大家和和气气,温良恭俭让,每个人都做自己喜欢的事情,真诚的对大家,多好。现在看来,这真是幼稚啊…

    有的人可能命好,有好的资源,并且有人愿意为ta守护;但这种人毕竟是少数,相对而言的大多数,是没有什么资源的。那么很简单,你想要么?能力够么?抱怨前,先掂量掂量自己的份量吧,“一个人最不配拥有的,是与其力量不相称的资源”!

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  • 02Jan
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  • 01Jan

    我最开始擅长的是短跑,小学和中学,短跑成绩还好,也曾代表班级参加过学校的运动会;但对于当时的800米,则是苦不堪言,跑一次觉得自己就要死了一样,成绩也勉勉强强。似乎是初中升高中的时候,体育考三项,其中便有令人头痛的800米,怎么办呢,练吧,和朋友一起,时不时去跑一下,似乎也没有多么恐怖,最终考试似乎是3分十几秒的样子,拿到了9分,算是完成了自己的目标。高三学习压力大了很多,跑步成了非常好的舒缓压力的方法,早晨起床,会先到操场上跑几圈,再去上课;下午放学后,也会到操场上跑几圈,再去做作业。跑步当时在班里很流行,同学们也有了暗暗较量的意思,你跑三圈,我跑五圈,哦,还有人跑十圈。。。经过近一年的锻炼,我已经能够较为轻松的跑一两千米了。可惜这个良好的喜欢并没有坚持下去,到大学后,似乎又开始懈怠,直到大四,开始准备研究生考试,需要良好的作息和强健的体格,我才重新拾起了跑步,几乎每天晚饭前,都会到操场上跑几圈,再走几圈散下步,一个意外之喜是跑步竟然治好了我的顽疾鼻炎,让我更加有动力坚持下去。读研后,也断断续续的再跑,坚持最久的就是07年,那也是我最忙的一年,在做项目,考英语,找工作,做实习之余,居然能坚持跑步和游泳,现在还佩服自己当初的毅力。

    08年,到了深圳工作,前半年很好,在健身房办了年卡,时不时去游泳,跑步,可也好景不长,到了09年就基本上懈怠了,一直到现在,如自由落体般堕落的我…

    长期不锻炼,体质也变差了,上一次感冒了一周多,居然诱发了鼻炎,到现在差不多20天了,还是没有完全好…或许这是上帝给我的警告吧,身体发出这个信号,是不是提醒我该跑步了呢?

    新年第一天,早饭后休息了一阵子,便到街心花园跑了几圈,1000多米的样子,冬日的暖阳下,我居然微微出汗,鼻子也前所未有的通畅,这种感觉真好!

    2012就要来了,不管是不是世界末日,我还是要老老实实过自己的生活,坚持读书、写字、旅行之外,或许还要加上一条,跑步吧!

  • 25Dec

    Christmas

    不知道是不是年纪大了,对节日愈发的不敏感,尤其是这个洋节,我甚至安排了心理义工的值班,从上午9点多开始,一直忙碌到晚上5点多才结束。吃了晚饭,收拾下东西,打算上网逛下便休息了。

    前几年的圣诞是怎么度过的,已经没什么具体印象,似乎都挺high的;今年算是最平静的一年吧,恩,我还挺喜欢这种感觉的。

     

    虽然生活乏善可陈,还是记录下,anyway,Merry Christmas~~

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